When looking to design a ceremony that has meaning and perhaps a bit of wisdom, why not include your own life? Did the two of you meet at Starbucks through on-line dating? Share a cuppa coffee at your ceremony? Do you ride bikes together as part of your exercise program? Then come down the aisle on a pedicab — probably the one with the big poofy white dress should ride, but it’ll get a giggle if you go the other way. (I’d practice first, however!) Don’t over emphasize it, just make it a moment, but acknowledging your life is a good way to help people understand why you’re compatible! Tip: remember! you want to have a good time at your wedding even as you’re taking it very seriously.