Build Community Support with Your Wedding Ceremony Make a space in your wedding ceremony for your community to promise their support and celebration of your marriage. Ask them to say “Yes!” to your love. Help them understand that you are looking for their support and celebration over the entire course of your marriage. Their promise to support you will change your lives. (it will also enrich theirs!) The clearer you are about what you need the more easily they can support you. Tip: Turn the objection question into a question about support and transform it into a useful segment of the wedding ceremony. Be deliberate about building the support you need.