Begin the Search for Community Support with your Invitation The first step in your campaign to build support for your marriage is to create an Invitation that explains to your guests that they are your beloved friends. that you want them to witness and celebrate your wedding vows. that you will want them to support you and your marriage in the future. Tip: Invite your Wedding Guests and let them know that they have a vital role to play in your life going forward. They’ll come to your wedding with different expectations of what they will see and what role they will play in your life and marriage.